HOOK UP WITH THE BOYFRIEND FORMULA

A STEP BY STEP FORMULA TO GET TO THE HEART OF GAY MEN AND GET THEM INTERESTED IN YOU. 

​SOLVING THE 8 PROBLEMS EVERY GAY MEN FACES

The Boyfriend Formula is designed to solve the 8 BIGGEST challenges  that members of the gay community face everyday.

DO ANY OF THESE SOUND FAMILIAR?

  • "I don't feel good enough"

  • "I feel lonely"

  • "I feel really insecure and I don't think anybody will ever love me"

  • "Online dating is hard. Nobody seems interested in dates, it is all about quick hook ups"

  • "I struggle meeting genuine guys"

  • "I am really nervous when I meet a guy I like, and I act really stupid"

  • "I am afraid that I am still single when I am old"

  • "I am scared my boyfriend is going to leave me"

8 WEEKS OF ONLINE TRAINING

You'll get access to 8-weeks of online training on the formula for mastering your own future, helping you become confident in all areas of your life, focusing on the strengths of your most important asset: YOU.

 

You'll discover all the techniques that can be used for the rest of your life so you can approach guys you like on the journey towards finding your perfect relationship, so you no longer have to feel lonely.

 

How? Through a proven group-training method that helps you get the results you want in your relationships, and any other areas of your life. It gives you the skills, confidence and mindset to look, act, and feel confidence. This will open you up to new opportunities in love and life.

 

On top of that, you get access to a number of tests that will help you get clear on your strengths and talents, so you can start to communicate more effectively with your partner, and at work.

THIS IS WHAT THE PROGRAM LOOKS LIKE:

THE PURPOSE FORMULA

Week 1

PURPOSE: How to develop a life that you love using a strategy that will give you the foundation for a strong successful life, professionally, personally, financially, and in relationships

Week 2

VALUES AND BELIEFS: How to develop a personality and identity that will make you feel empowered and secure using a step by step approach to getting a better understanding of what makes you so unique, special, and desirable.

Week 3

GOAL SETTING: How to be more decisive and take action that is relevant to you. Discover the 8 Step Goal Setting Formula, to make sure you do the right thing to get what you want.

THE CONFIDENCE FORMULA

Week 4

TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE: How to develop self-esteem by developing a number of powerful mindset techniques to help you control negative thoughts and change the conversations inside your head.

Week 5

BE MAGNETIC: How you can feel attractive, and good enough, using simple intuitive tools, so that you get more opportunities and more of what you want in your life based on what is right for you.

Week 6

HAVE FAITH: How to trust yourself so you can make better decisions faster using intuitive energy healing methods to communicate with your sub-conscious.

THE RELATIONSHIP FORMULA

Week 7

LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX: This week the focus is on sex, friendship and communication within relationships. Giving you the tools to keep the relationship interesting.

Week 8

BE SUCCESSFUL: What are some of the foundations of keeping your relationship together. We'll be looking at purpose in relationships, lifestyle and more.

6-MONTHS OF LIVE WEEKLY Q&A SUPPORT

To make sure you reach your end goal, The Boyfriend Formula is there with you every step of the way.

 

You'll meet LIVE every week to participate in a Boyfriend Formula group session for answering your questions right there and then..

 

Not only do you get your questions answered, you get to benefit from the power of a community mastermind group - fellow gay men who are all on a similar journey to you.

 

PLUS... you can also ask questions in between times in the dedicated Private "The Boyfriend Formula" Facebook Group for a speedy written response.

24/7 ACCESS: PRIVATE FACEBOOK GROUP

This is so you don't have to feel alone and you can feel part of a community..

 

Outside of the LIVE Q&A, you can have all your questions answered in your Private Facebook Community..

 

Even better, because Markus only allows a limited number of people to enter this program, you will be part of a committed and supportive mastermind group, where support and help is only a click away.

MEET YOUR COACH, TRAINER AND SUPPORT.

Hi there, 

 

This is me, Markus van Driel. Driven by passion, motivated by life.

 

Life Coach, Gay Relationship Coach, but above all, somebody who is passionate about supporting and motivating others.

 

And that is the aim of this program. It is about giving you the tools and techniques that you can apply instantly so you can start to put yourself out there, on your quest to find love, relationships and success in life.

 

Too often, I see attractive and nice gay men who have so much to offer and who constantly put themselves down.

 

I have dedicated my life to understanding what makes us confident, successful and happy, and here is where I share practical steps with you to help you get there.

 

If this is what interests you, then join me in the program. That way, you can feel confident on your journey towards the life and relationships you deserve. 

Do you live the life you want to live?

ONCE YOU'RE IN THE FLOW, THINGS COME EASY TO YOU. NOTHING IS A STRUGGLE ANYMORE.

As gay men we are blessed because we are different. But the challenge we face is that we need to fit in with a world that doesn't see us.

 

The universe (or God, depending on your beliefs) gives the biggest challenges to those with the biggest potential. The bigger the struggle, the bigger your opportunity. This statement gave me hope and motivation in my darkest moments. To this day, it inspires me to live my life with love, focusing on creating something that benefits not only me, but others as well.

 

If you are ready to tackle them, take responsibility for the outcomes you get in life, or you simply want to love yourself and be happy. Then here is where it starts.

Challenges are merely growth opportunities.

3 OF THE COMMON QUESTIONS I GET ASKED

  • I value my career: How can I get focus and direction?

    You're ambitious, you work hard, maybe you even love your job, but yet you feel unhappy and unfulfilled. You feel without direction, like there is more to life. The thing is, you don't know what it means. You're lost. The challenge you have is limiting beliefs, or beliefs that you have adapted from others, like your family. Are you trying to please others? Live your life so others are happy? I was there too. But once I started to focus on what I wanted, the big shift happened. We will shine the spotlight back on you. Tap into your skills and strengths to create a life worth living. Enjoy the exciting journey of personal growth and success.

  • I am dating: How do I know I am in a relationship?

    You're in love. But you're not sure he's in love with you. Do you think this is the right time to have "The are we a boyfriend conversation?" I hear this all the time. Another favourite is, "When are you in a relationship?" With online dating apps it becomes harder to know whether you are dating or hooking up. Often there is confusion. First the guy your dating doesn't want to commit, then priorities change. Maybe you fear rejection. Communicate and use the powerful tools at your disposal so you are ready for the rejection, or the relationship you want and deserve.

  • I am single: Why doesn't anybody love me?

    Gay men are shallow and body-obsessed. I don't feel part of the gay community, they are so obsessed by body and image.  I am ugly. I don't fit the ideal gay physical image. I am too short, I am too ugly. I have heard it all. Yet all of these people have one thing in common: they are looking externally for validation. I have done this most of my life too.It is tiring. It depletes your energy. And you're not achieving anything with it. The self-criticism builds up over years, but you can get rid of it much quicker. Using the right tools, you can obliterate the beliefs often instantly. No longer are you dependent on the validation of others. You are the person in charge of your thoughts, feelings and actions.

The most important relationship is with yourself.

IF YOU DON'T TRUST AND LOVE YOURSELF, WHO CAN YOU RELY ON?

Relationships come and go. But you will always be there for yourself.

 

In order for you to create the life you want, you need to create flow. You can do this by getting clear on who you are, what you want, and where you are going.

 

Here are the three things you need to know to love yourself and make everything possible.

WHAT PEOPLE HAVE TO SAY ABOUT ME

After I worked with Markus, I had the confidence to step outside of my comfort zone and I had the courage to make amazing changes. I saw massive changes, including in my business.

JUSTIN G.

Self employed

Within weeks, the entire relationship with my partner evolved. I became more relaxed, there were fewer arguments. Even the incredibly difficult relationship with my father improved.

Mark M.

Manager

Markus was able to help me recognise how my emotional state and belief systems were influencing my life and my relationships. His methods truly work and will help you get there.

Zee N.

Lecturer

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